Just Say OK

I'm not good at communicating. It's the reason most of my relationships failed. In fact it's the primary reason I hate my job. If I was a good communicator I would be able to effectively and politely tell the customers to FUCK OFF, but instead I keep these feelings inside. But anyway, for those of you that don't know, I will be moving into a brand new house next Tuesday. This is MY SHIT...it has four walls, three bedrooms, two bathrooms, a laundry room,a kitchen, and a garage (but no garage door opener. Aint that some bullshit???). Me and my significant other have been shopping for the essentials...furniture, dishes, a flat screen TV...the basics. AND I already set up the cable and electricity. So I asked my significant other to call the alarm company and set up whatever needs to be set up...

Long story short, after he told me that he did it I gave him my opinion about the situation and I think I hurt his feelings, which was NOT what I was trying to do. I was just telling him what I thought and how I felt...

Now I wouldn't say that I'm an ineffective communicator. I just think I'm misunderstood. And sometimes I don't say what I REALLY REALLY want to say, mainly because I don't like to argue. I think my BF likes to start arguments on purpose though, so we can have makeup sex. BUT that's a story for another time...hehehe.